Anonymous asked: Its a natural desire within me to be submissive. I wanted to thank you for helping realise it's normal to want to let go of control, it's an escapism. However I need help, I have never orgasmed and am wandering whether I'm preventing it from myself?
You might be. Giving up control is not easy, even if it’s desired. The first step is to relax. Don’t focus on the goal of orgasm. When you let go of worrying about the destination you might find you arrive there much quicker.