Anonymous said: I'm quite new to the wonderful world of sex. I'm very curious and open minded. But I am confused about two things. One, I don't know if I'm sub yet because I love challenging authority, as well as begging and being called 'HIS toy/slut' as well as the roughness and restraints. Two, I haven't actually reached orgasm before, by penetration. Is there something I can do to help this? Because I feel horrible when I have sex, and the other person can't make me finish. Sorry for all the questions
Just because you like challenging authority doesn’t mean you’re not a sub. It just means you’re a willful sub who enjoys being corrected. Given your fondness for restraint, begging and being called His toy/slut, I’d say the odds are infinitely high you’re submissive.
Orgasms - no way to know what is holding yours back. Reaching orgasm by penetration is not easy. Many women never experience it. In my opinion it takes a near perfect cock and someone who is well inside your head. No need to feel bad that you can’t finish, unless you’d like that to become cause for correction.